Some women have a knack for bouncing back from a bad breakup. It seems they give themselves a day or two to mourn the loss of the relationship before hitting the dating scene with gusto. Then they never look back. Their motto: Nothing helps you get over the last guy like the next guy.
Unfortunately, alot women can not shake a lost love because they are unwilling to accept that the relationship is over. They replay old conversations in their heads. They obsess over what they should have done to avoid the breakup. They arrange to bump into the guy and convince him he has made a mistake. They fantasize about him constantly. They believe that he is "the one," and that the relationship was "meant to be." They fear that if they let go emotionally, they will have thrown away their shot at true love.
SO HOW DOES A WOMAN GET OVER AN EX?
She must make a decision to get over him, and then she needs the discipline to carry it out.
1. GET RID OF ANYTHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HIM: You cannot afford to entertain a single pleasant thought about the relationship. Instead, it helps to write a list of the things he did that drove You crazy. If a friend brings up his name, it is important that she change the subject. By all means, she should avoid speaking of him at all.
2. GO OUT: It helps if you hit the social scene often by meeting friends, taking classes, and going to movies. If a woman makes a point of meeting new people, she will meet new men. When she meets a guy with potential, it is critical that she give him a fair chance. Mentally comparing him to her ex is a mistake.
A woman can get over a lost love, but only if she is willing. She must consciously block him from her heart and mind. It is not easy at first, but it does get easier. Once she evicts the guy for good, she can move on to the passion and happiness she deserves.
Unfortunately, alot women can not shake a lost love because they are unwilling to accept that the relationship is over. They replay old conversations in their heads. They obsess over what they should have done to avoid the breakup. They arrange to bump into the guy and convince him he has made a mistake. They fantasize about him constantly. They believe that he is "the one," and that the relationship was "meant to be." They fear that if they let go emotionally, they will have thrown away their shot at true love.
SO HOW DOES A WOMAN GET OVER AN EX?
She must make a decision to get over him, and then she needs the discipline to carry it out.
1. GET RID OF ANYTHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HIM: You cannot afford to entertain a single pleasant thought about the relationship. Instead, it helps to write a list of the things he did that drove You crazy. If a friend brings up his name, it is important that she change the subject. By all means, she should avoid speaking of him at all.
2. GO OUT: It helps if you hit the social scene often by meeting friends, taking classes, and going to movies. If a woman makes a point of meeting new people, she will meet new men. When she meets a guy with potential, it is critical that she give him a fair chance. Mentally comparing him to her ex is a mistake.
A woman can get over a lost love, but only if she is willing. She must consciously block him from her heart and mind. It is not easy at first, but it does get easier. Once she evicts the guy for good, she can move on to the passion and happiness she deserves.
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