There are the people in your life who appreciate having you in theirs. The ones who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways, and who not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be. These people are the ones who truly matter.
Here is how to foster special relationships with such a person.
1. GET AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE: Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out you free yourself from negative people.
2. LET GO OF SOME PEOPLE: The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. Weed these people out of your life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It does not mean they are bad people, it just means that their part in your story is over.
3. GIVE NEW PEOPLE A CHANCE: When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has changed them, and forced them to grow. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. So appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.
4. SHOW EVERYONE KINDNESS AND RESPECT: Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you not because they are nice, but because you are. There are no boundaries or classes that define a group of people that deserve to be respected. People will notice your kindness.
5. ENCOURAGE PEOPLE: Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places. Productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those who are making progress. Cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you are cheering for will start cheering for you
6. FORGIVE AND MOVE ON: Forgive people and move forward. Do not live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people is the remedy. It does not mean you are erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life. Remember, the less time you spend hating the people who hurt you, the more time you will have to love the people who love you.
7. PAY ATTENTION TO TRUE FRIENDS: Remember, life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they are not even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.
8. TALK LESS AND LISTEN MORE: Less advice is often the best advice. People do not need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement. What they want to know is often already somewhere inside of them. They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.
TAKE CARE ..MWAAAAAH.
- See more at: http://jksoulmate.com/readstory.php?page=438#sthash.jqpDo6Ts.dpufHere is how to foster special relationships with such a person.
1. GET AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE: Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out you free yourself from negative people.
2. LET GO OF SOME PEOPLE: The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. Weed these people out of your life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It does not mean they are bad people, it just means that their part in your story is over.
3. GIVE NEW PEOPLE A CHANCE: When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has changed them, and forced them to grow. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. So appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.
4. SHOW EVERYONE KINDNESS AND RESPECT: Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you not because they are nice, but because you are. There are no boundaries or classes that define a group of people that deserve to be respected. People will notice your kindness.
5. ENCOURAGE PEOPLE: Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places. Productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those who are making progress. Cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you are cheering for will start cheering for you
6. FORGIVE AND MOVE ON: Forgive people and move forward. Do not live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people is the remedy. It does not mean you are erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life. Remember, the less time you spend hating the people who hurt you, the more time you will have to love the people who love you.
7. PAY ATTENTION TO TRUE FRIENDS: Remember, life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they are not even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.
8. TALK LESS AND LISTEN MORE: Less advice is often the best advice. People do not need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement. What they want to know is often already somewhere inside of them. They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.
TAKE CARE ..MWAAAAAH.
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