UNAWEZA ukakataa lakini ndivyo ilivyotokea, ndoa ya mtangazaji mahiri Bongo, Gardner Gabriel Fikirini Habash ‘Kapteini’ na Mbongo Fleva, Judith Wambura Mbibo ‘Jide’ iliyofungwa miaka 9 iliyopita inadaiwa kuingia kidudu kufuatia mke huyo kuomba aandikiwe talaka, ni Ijumaa Wikienda pekee lenye uthubutu wa kuripoti mkasa wote.
Kwa mujibu wa chanzo chetu cha kuaminika, Jide au Lady Jaydee alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya Gardner kupata kazi ya kutangazia redio moja nchini Kenya.
HABARI KAMILI
Mnyetishaji wa kisanga hiki, aliliambia Ijumaa Wikienda kuwa mara baada ya mume huyo kupata mchongo mzima alirudi nyumbani akiwa na furaha na kumwambia mkewe kuhusu bahati hiyo.
“Baada ya Gardner kupata mchongo wote wa kazi alikwenda mbio nyumbani kwake Kimara (Dar) ili akamwambie mkewe.
“Pia katika safari ya kwenda Kenya kupiga mzigo ilikuwa aende na mkewe huyo kwa sababu lilikuwa suala la kuhamisha makazi yao Tanzania,” kilisema chanzo hicho.
JIDE AHAMAKI
Chanzo kikatoboa kwamba Gardner alipofika nyumbani kwake na kumweleza mkewe, alikumbana na kitu ambacho hakukitarajia.
“Komando (Jide) alihamaki na kumjia juu akisema yeye hawezi kuondoka Tanzania kwenda kuishi Kenya, kama Gardner analiona jambo hilo ni heri kwake, amuandikie talaka yake na kuachana ili kila mmoja achukue hamsini zake,” chanzo kilizidi kuporomosha maneno.
KWA NINI JIDE HAKUPENDA?
Habari zilizidi kuanikwa kwamba Jide au Binti Machozi alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya kugundua kuwa kitendo cha kwenda kuishi Kenya kitaua bendi yake ya Machozi na sehemu ya biashara ya Nyumbani Lounge iliyopo Ada-Estate, Kinondoni, Dar.
MBAYA ZAIDI
Taarifa zikazidi kumiminika kwamba, mbali na Jide au Anakonda kuhofia biashara zake kufa, lakini pia hakupenda Gardner aondoke hata peke yake kwa sababu yeye ndiye meneja wa miradi hiyo miwili.
“Mimi nilipopata habari hizo nilikutana na Jide nikamuuliza, akanijibu ameamua iwe hivyo tu, kikubwa mumewe (Gardner) aamue moja kati ya hayo mawili kwani yeye ana haki akiwa kama mkewe wa ndoa,” kilisema chanzo kikimkariri Jide.
GARDNER AISHIWA NGUVU
Kufuatia majibu ya mkewe, taarifa zinasema mtangazaji huyo ambaye alishawahi kupiga mzigo kwenye kituo cha Radio Clouds FM cha jijini Dar alijikuta akiishiwa nguvu na kuachana na dili hilo mara moja.
“Gardner alisalimu amri kwa mkewe, akaamua kuachana na dili la kwenda kutangaza Kenya. Lakini alifikiri sana akasema ni kweli kuhamia Kenya kungeua miradi yao ya Tanzania maana ingekosa msimamizi wa kuaminika,” chanzo kiliweka wazi.
KAMA ANGEKWENDA KENYA
Siri hiyo iliyovujia mikononi mwa Ijumaa Wikienda haikuishia hapo, ilizidi kuanikwa kwamba kama Kapteini angekwenda Kenya na kuanza kazi, ilikuwa alipwe mshahara wa shilingi za Kenya laki 3 kwa mwezi (kama milioni 6 za Tanzania).
NAFASI YAKE BADO IPO
Mpashaji wetu alisema kwamba nafasi ya Gardner kwenye kituo hicho cha redio ambacho hakikutajwa, bado ipo lakini tamko la Jide nalo li hai, kwa vile hakubatilisha, endapo mumewe atataka kwenda hata kesho (Jumanne) aandike talaka.
WIKIENDA NA GARDNER
Baada ya kunyetishiwa taarifa nzima, juzi gazeti hili lilimsaka Gardner. Kwa njia ya simu lilimkosa, likamfuata Nyumbani Lounge. Lilipomkuta lilimsimulia kisanga chote cha ndoa yake kutikiswa na kitendo cha yeye kupata kazi Kenya ambapo alijibu hivi:
“Ndoa ni nzuri, ni kweli ilikuwa niende Kenya, nilipata kazi kule lakini kama familia ilikuwa lazima tukae na kupanga, mwenzangu hakuafiki.”
Wikienda: “Ni kweli shemeji ameomba uchague mawili, umwandikike talaka au uende Kenya?”
Gardner: “Ndiyo maana nimesema ndoa nzuri, lazima makubaliano yawepo, mke anaweza kuonesha msimamo wake na mume kama utakaa chini na kuufikiria ukapata jibu unakubaliana na mke wako wala hakuna ubaya.”
Wikienda: “Kule mshahara wako ungekuwa shilingi ngapi?”
Gardner: “Hiyo sasa ni siri ya makubaliano.”
Wikienda: “Kwa nini usiamue kwenda tu?”
Gardner: “Nimekwambia ndoa nzuri.”
JIDE BIZE
Juhudi za kumpata Jide ziligonga mwamba baada ya muda wote kuwa bize na shoo ya kukata na shoka aliyokuwa akiifanya siku hiyo kwenye ukumbi huo akikimbiza na nyimbo zake kali za zamani na hizi mbili zilizogeuka nyimbo za taifa, Joto Hasira na Yahaya.
RAFIKI WA GADNER AMCHAMBUA JIDE
Rafiki wa karibu na Gardner (jina tunalo) ambaye alisikia mahojiano ya mtangazaji huyo na Ijumaa Wikienda, alisubiri jamaa aondoke ambapo alianza kumchambua Jide.
“Nataka kuwaambia kitu, Jide ni mwanamke jasiri sana. Ana msimamo na anaposhikilia msimamo wake hatengui hasa kama atabaini kuwa yupo sahihi.
“Ni kweli jamaa (Gardner) alipata kazi Kenya tena mshahara mzuri tu, lakini mama (Jide) akaweka ngumu hakuna kwenda,” alisema rafiki huyo.
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I’ve been a Christian all my life, but it wasn’t until my husband of a year and a half told me he was filing for divorce did I find the true meaning of faith in Christ. I was devastated as everyone is when they hear that news come from someone they completely trust and love. Of course we didn’t have a perfect marriage, and honestly I wasn’t happy with how “off track” it had become, but I was willing to change it for the better and he wanted out. We both asked God for His blessing over our marriage as we didn’t want to rush into marriage blindly. This was also his first real committed relationship and my second. From that prayer on, we always said our marriage was a tripod; the Lord, him, and I. Then life kicked in and while I thought we were doing okay, trying to make it through day to day, he tells me he is unhappy with our marriage. We went to talk with a Chaplin he trusted, who then referred us to a marriage counselor. They helped but with my husband unwilling to save our marriage we stopped going. We have since then been separated for 3 months. He wants to file the papers this upcoming month. I have prayed everyday since he told me he wanted a divorce for his well-being, my continued growth through this storm, and for reconciliation. I trust in the Lord and have continued hope in our marriage.
After reading the post, ‘Before You Throw in the Towel, Remembered Why You Got Married’, I know I am willing to change and put in the work to have a perfect Godly marriage but he doesn’t want any part of our marriage or me. He walked out of our marriage by stating that he never truly loved me. That he was lonely and that was the only reason why things moved quickly and we got married. That he never took the time to validate his true feelings for me and that he had been slowly realizing this over the course of our marriage.
How do I fight this outlook with the Lord’s word? Am I naïve in hoping for reconciliation when he has made his statement clear? My pastor told me as fast as this all turned upside down, the Lord can make it right. I’ve been holding onto those words and scriptures, but my husband is pushing more and more for divorce. I feel lost and confused. Am I holding on too tight to a failed marriage? I am not afraid of the divorce because I know God will heal my heart and lead me on His path. But I don’t want to give up on the man that is the one my soul loved.
Sincerely,
Lost and Confused in Marriage
Hi,- See more at: http://theprayingwoman.com/2014/02/02/feeling-lost-and-confused-when-is-it-time-to-move-on/#sthash.TVvynP2x.dpuf
I’ve been a Christian all my life, but it wasn’t until my husband of a year and a half told me he was filing for divorce did I find the true meaning of faith in Christ. I was devastated as everyone is when they hear that news come from someone they completely trust and love. Of course we didn’t have a perfect marriage, and honestly I wasn’t happy with how “off track” it had become, but I was willing to change it for the better and he wanted out. We both asked God for His blessing over our marriage as we didn’t want to rush into marriage blindly. This was also his first real committed relationship and my second. From that prayer on, we always said our marriage was a tripod; the Lord, him, and I. Then life kicked in and while I thought we were doing okay, trying to make it through day to day, he tells me he is unhappy with our marriage. We went to talk with a Chaplin he trusted, who then referred us to a marriage counselor. They helped but with my husband unwilling to save our marriage we stopped going. We have since then been separated for 3 months. He wants to file the papers this upcoming month. I have prayed everyday since he told me he wanted a divorce for his well-being, my continued growth through this storm, and for reconciliation. I trust in the Lord and have continued hope in our marriage.
After reading the post, ‘Before You Throw in the Towel, Remembered Why You Got Married’, I know I am willing to change and put in the work to have a perfect Godly marriage but he doesn’t want any part of our marriage or me. He walked out of our marriage by stating that he never truly loved me. That he was lonely and that was the only reason why things moved quickly and we got married. That he never took the time to validate his true feelings for me and that he had been slowly realizing this over the course of our marriage.
How do I fight this outlook with the Lord’s word? Am I naïve in hoping for reconciliation when he has made his statement clear? My pastor told me as fast as this all turned upside down, the Lord can make it right. I’ve been holding onto those words and scriptures, but my husband is pushing more and more for divorce. I feel lost and confused. Am I holding on too tight to a failed marriage? I am not afraid of the divorce because I know God will heal my heart and lead me on His path. But I don’t want to give up on the man that is the one my soul loved.
Sincerely,
Lost and Confused in Marriage
UNAWEZA ukakataa lakini ndivyo ilivyotokea, ndoa ya mtangazaji mahiri Bongo, Gardner Gabriel Fikirini Habash ‘Kapteini’ na Mbongo Fleva, Judith Wambura Mbibo ‘Jide’ iliyofungwa miaka 9 iliyopita inadaiwa kuingia kidudu kufuatia mke huyo kuomba aandikiwe talaka, ni Ijumaa Wikienda pekee lenye uthubutu wa kuripoti mkasa wote.
Kwa mujibu wa chanzo chetu cha kuaminika, Jide au Lady Jaydee alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya Gardner kupata kazi ya kutangazia redio moja nchini Kenya.
HABARI KAMILI
Mnyetishaji wa kisanga hiki, aliliambia Ijumaa Wikienda kuwa mara baada ya mume huyo kupata mchongo mzima alirudi nyumbani akiwa na furaha na kumwambia mkewe kuhusu bahati hiyo.
“Baada ya Gardner kupata mchongo wote wa kazi alikwenda mbio nyumbani kwake Kimara (Dar) ili akamwambie mkewe.
“Pia katika safari ya kwenda Kenya kupiga mzigo ilikuwa aende na mkewe huyo kwa sababu lilikuwa suala la kuhamisha makazi yao Tanzania,” kilisema chanzo hicho.
JIDE AHAMAKI
Chanzo kikatoboa kwamba Gardner alipofika nyumbani kwake na kumweleza mkewe, alikumbana na kitu ambacho hakukitarajia.
“Komando (Jide) alihamaki na kumjia juu akisema yeye hawezi kuondoka Tanzania kwenda kuishi Kenya, kama Gardner analiona jambo hilo ni heri kwake, amuandikie talaka yake na kuachana ili kila mmoja achukue hamsini zake,” chanzo kilizidi kuporomosha maneno.
KWA NINI JIDE HAKUPENDA?
Habari zilizidi kuanikwa kwamba Jide au Binti Machozi alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya kugundua kuwa kitendo cha kwenda kuishi Kenya kitaua bendi yake ya Machozi na sehemu ya biashara ya Nyumbani Lounge iliyopo Ada-Estate, Kinondoni, Dar.
MBAYA ZAIDI
Taarifa zikazidi kumiminika kwamba, mbali na Jide au Anakonda kuhofia biashara zake kufa, lakini pia hakupenda Gardner aondoke hata peke yake kwa sababu yeye ndiye meneja wa miradi hiyo miwili.
“Mimi nilipopata habari hizo nilikutana na Jide nikamuuliza, akanijibu ameamua iwe hivyo tu, kikubwa mumewe (Gardner) aamue moja kati ya hayo mawili kwani yeye ana haki akiwa kama mkewe wa ndoa,” kilisema chanzo kikimkariri Jide.
GARDNER AISHIWA NGUVU
Kufuatia majibu ya mkewe, taarifa zinasema mtangazaji huyo ambaye alishawahi kupiga mzigo kwenye kituo cha Radio Clouds FM cha jijini Dar alijikuta akiishiwa nguvu na kuachana na dili hilo mara moja.
“Gardner alisalimu amri kwa mkewe, akaamua kuachana na dili la kwenda kutangaza Kenya. Lakini alifikiri sana akasema ni kweli kuhamia Kenya kungeua miradi yao ya Tanzania maana ingekosa msimamizi wa kuaminika,” chanzo kiliweka wazi.
KAMA ANGEKWENDA KENYA
Siri hiyo iliyovujia mikononi mwa Ijumaa Wikienda haikuishia hapo, ilizidi kuanikwa kwamba kama Kapteini angekwenda Kenya na kuanza kazi, ilikuwa alipwe mshahara wa shilingi za Kenya laki 3 kwa mwezi (kama milioni 6 za Tanzania).
NAFASI YAKE BADO IPO
Mpashaji wetu alisema kwamba nafasi ya Gardner kwenye kituo hicho cha redio ambacho hakikutajwa, bado ipo lakini tamko la Jide nalo li hai, kwa vile hakubatilisha, endapo mumewe atataka kwenda hata kesho (Jumanne) aandike talaka.
WIKIENDA NA GARDNER
Baada ya kunyetishiwa taarifa nzima, juzi gazeti hili lilimsaka Gardner. Kwa njia ya simu lilimkosa, likamfuata Nyumbani Lounge. Lilipomkuta lilimsimulia kisanga chote cha ndoa yake kutikiswa na kitendo cha yeye kupata kazi Kenya ambapo alijibu hivi:
“Ndoa ni nzuri, ni kweli ilikuwa niende Kenya, nilipata kazi kule lakini kama familia ilikuwa lazima tukae na kupanga, mwenzangu hakuafiki.”
Wikienda: “Ni kweli shemeji ameomba uchague mawili, umwandikike talaka au uende Kenya?”
Gardner: “Ndiyo maana nimesema ndoa nzuri, lazima makubaliano yawepo, mke anaweza kuonesha msimamo wake na mume kama utakaa chini na kuufikiria ukapata jibu unakubaliana na mke wako wala hakuna ubaya.”
Wikienda: “Kule mshahara wako ungekuwa shilingi ngapi?”
Gardner: “Hiyo sasa ni siri ya makubaliano.”
Wikienda: “Kwa nini usiamue kwenda tu?”
Gardner: “Nimekwambia ndoa nzuri.”
JIDE BIZE
Juhudi za kumpata Jide ziligonga mwamba baada ya muda wote kuwa bize na shoo ya kukata na shoka aliyokuwa akiifanya siku hiyo kwenye ukumbi huo akikimbiza na nyimbo zake kali za zamani na hizi mbili zilizogeuka nyimbo za taifa, Joto Hasira na Yahaya.
RAFIKI WA GADNER AMCHAMBUA JIDE
Rafiki wa karibu na Gardner (jina tunalo) ambaye alisikia mahojiano ya mtangazaji huyo na Ijumaa Wikienda, alisubiri jamaa aondoke ambapo alianza kumchambua Jide.
“Nataka kuwaambia kitu, Jide ni mwanamke jasiri sana. Ana msimamo na anaposhikilia msimamo wake hatengui hasa kama atabaini kuwa yupo sahihi.
“Ni kweli jamaa (Gardner) alipata kazi Kenya tena mshahara mzuri tu, lakini mama (Jide) akaweka ngumu hakuna kwenda,” alisema rafiki huyo.
UNAWEZA ukakataa lakini ndivyo ilivyotokea, ndoa ya mtangazaji mahiri Bongo, Gardner Gabriel Fikirini Habash ‘Kapteini’ na Mbongo Fleva, Judith Wambura Mbibo ‘Jide’ iliyofungwa miaka 9 iliyopita inadaiwa kuingia kidudu kufuatia mke huyo kuomba aandikiwe talaka, ni Ijumaa Wikienda pekee lenye uthubutu wa kuripoti mkasa wote.
Kwa mujibu wa chanzo chetu cha kuaminika, Jide au Lady Jaydee alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya Gardner kupata kazi ya kutangazia redio moja nchini Kenya.
HABARI KAMILI
Mnyetishaji wa kisanga hiki, aliliambia Ijumaa Wikienda kuwa mara baada ya mume huyo kupata mchongo mzima alirudi nyumbani akiwa na furaha na kumwambia mkewe kuhusu bahati hiyo.
“Baada ya Gardner kupata mchongo wote wa kazi alikwenda mbio nyumbani kwake Kimara (Dar) ili akamwambie mkewe.
“Pia katika safari ya kwenda Kenya kupiga mzigo ilikuwa aende na mkewe huyo kwa sababu lilikuwa suala la kuhamisha makazi yao Tanzania,” kilisema chanzo hicho.
JIDE AHAMAKI
Chanzo kikatoboa kwamba Gardner alipofika nyumbani kwake na kumweleza mkewe, alikumbana na kitu ambacho hakukitarajia.
“Komando (Jide) alihamaki na kumjia juu akisema yeye hawezi kuondoka Tanzania kwenda kuishi Kenya, kama Gardner analiona jambo hilo ni heri kwake, amuandikie talaka yake na kuachana ili kila mmoja achukue hamsini zake,” chanzo kilizidi kuporomosha maneno.
KWA NINI JIDE HAKUPENDA?
Habari zilizidi kuanikwa kwamba Jide au Binti Machozi alifikia uamuzi huo baada ya kugundua kuwa kitendo cha kwenda kuishi Kenya kitaua bendi yake ya Machozi na sehemu ya biashara ya Nyumbani Lounge iliyopo Ada-Estate, Kinondoni, Dar.
MBAYA ZAIDI
Taarifa zikazidi kumiminika kwamba, mbali na Jide au Anakonda kuhofia biashara zake kufa, lakini pia hakupenda Gardner aondoke hata peke yake kwa sababu yeye ndiye meneja wa miradi hiyo miwili.
“Mimi nilipopata habari hizo nilikutana na Jide nikamuuliza, akanijibu ameamua iwe hivyo tu, kikubwa mumewe (Gardner) aamue moja kati ya hayo mawili kwani yeye ana haki akiwa kama mkewe wa ndoa,” kilisema chanzo kikimkariri Jide.
GARDNER AISHIWA NGUVU
Kufuatia majibu ya mkewe, taarifa zinasema mtangazaji huyo ambaye alishawahi kupiga mzigo kwenye kituo cha Radio Clouds FM cha jijini Dar alijikuta akiishiwa nguvu na kuachana na dili hilo mara moja.
“Gardner alisalimu amri kwa mkewe, akaamua kuachana na dili la kwenda kutangaza Kenya. Lakini alifikiri sana akasema ni kweli kuhamia Kenya kungeua miradi yao ya Tanzania maana ingekosa msimamizi wa kuaminika,” chanzo kiliweka wazi.
KAMA ANGEKWENDA KENYA
Siri hiyo iliyovujia mikononi mwa Ijumaa Wikienda haikuishia hapo, ilizidi kuanikwa kwamba kama Kapteini angekwenda Kenya na kuanza kazi, ilikuwa alipwe mshahara wa shilingi za Kenya laki 3 kwa mwezi (kama milioni 6 za Tanzania).
NAFASI YAKE BADO IPO
Mpashaji wetu alisema kwamba nafasi ya Gardner kwenye kituo hicho cha redio ambacho hakikutajwa, bado ipo lakini tamko la Jide nalo li hai, kwa vile hakubatilisha, endapo mumewe atataka kwenda hata kesho (Jumanne) aandike talaka.
WIKIENDA NA GARDNER
Baada ya kunyetishiwa taarifa nzima, juzi gazeti hili lilimsaka Gardner. Kwa njia ya simu lilimkosa, likamfuata Nyumbani Lounge. Lilipomkuta lilimsimulia kisanga chote cha ndoa yake kutikiswa na kitendo cha yeye kupata kazi Kenya ambapo alijibu hivi:
“Ndoa ni nzuri, ni kweli ilikuwa niende Kenya, nilipata kazi kule lakini kama familia ilikuwa lazima tukae na kupanga, mwenzangu hakuafiki.”
Wikienda: “Ni kweli shemeji ameomba uchague mawili, umwandikike talaka au uende Kenya?”
Gardner: “Ndiyo maana nimesema ndoa nzuri, lazima makubaliano yawepo, mke anaweza kuonesha msimamo wake na mume kama utakaa chini na kuufikiria ukapata jibu unakubaliana na mke wako wala hakuna ubaya.”
Wikienda: “Kule mshahara wako ungekuwa shilingi ngapi?”
Gardner: “Hiyo sasa ni siri ya makubaliano.”
Wikienda: “Kwa nini usiamue kwenda tu?”
Gardner: “Nimekwambia ndoa nzuri.”
JIDE BIZE
Juhudi za kumpata Jide ziligonga mwamba baada ya muda wote kuwa bize na shoo ya kukata na shoka aliyokuwa akiifanya siku hiyo kwenye ukumbi huo akikimbiza na nyimbo zake kali za zamani na hizi mbili zilizogeuka nyimbo za taifa, Joto Hasira na Yahaya.
RAFIKI WA GADNER AMCHAMBUA JIDE
Rafiki wa karibu na Gardner (jina tunalo) ambaye alisikia mahojiano ya mtangazaji huyo na Ijumaa Wikienda, alisubiri jamaa aondoke ambapo alianza kumchambua Jide.
“Nataka kuwaambia kitu, Jide ni mwanamke jasiri sana. Ana msimamo na anaposhikilia msimamo wake hatengui hasa kama atabaini kuwa yupo sahihi.
“Ni kweli jamaa (Gardner) alipata kazi Kenya tena mshahara mzuri tu, lakini mama (Jide) akaweka ngumu hakuna kwenda,” alisema rafiki huyo.
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