3 SIGNS OF THE MOST DANGEROUS RELATIONSHIP

When we fall in love, we are blinded from these three signs. After about two years int the relationship, these three signs begin to show up. If you are very aware, you can notice them almost immediately even before a relationship goes past that point of no return. Then, there is a chance to save yourself from what may be, at best, an almost certain disappointment, and at worst, a tragedy.

1. LACK OF DISCIPLINE: You might be attracted to a devil-may-care attitude, recklessness, danger, and bravado, but in the end, these will destroy a relationship. Thinking of the needs of your partner is the strength of any relationship, but when discipline is lacking, needs are never considered except for yourself, and the fun times will soon stop.

2. LACK OF COMPASSION: This comes across as an overly intense desire to control you by pleasing you, and perhaps your family, in a very charming way. This controlling mechanism comes across as flattery, at the time, but this can be turned around quickly when you are the one being controlled; you will no longer please a controller when the relationship becomes a little less interesting and normal to the controller. Simmering anger is a dead giveaway regarding controllers.

3. LACK OF WISDOM: Wisdom is different from being smart or clever. Wisdom sees things from a more lofty perspective. Being witty and making money easily is a sign of being clever, but working hard and steady, along with considering the feelings of your partner is a sign of wisdom, regardless whether great sums of money are accumulated or not.

If you meet someone who is not controlling, who displays sincerity and kindness (toward everyone, not only you), rather than manipulation and anger, then the relationship will be very comfortable and loving. Sincere kindness and openness is what to look for. A willingness to not so much give in to your wants and needs, but a willingness to discus, rather than dictate. This is so important. "What would you like to do," instead of "Here is what we are going to do."

Control and manipulation are the most dangerous of the three signs, because when we are controlled and manipulated, things invariably go from bad, to extremely bad, in short order. Better to pass, when it comes to controlling type people, and wait for someone who truly has your interests at heart. A little patience and a little discernment up front will bring you untold benefits in the long run. This is very important, and you should think about these things.

These three signs can forewarn us of not only psychological problems to come, but possible physical harm as well. This is why these signs should be taken seriously. The time to notice them is before one falls in love because once that happens, temporary insanity, along with temporary blindness, sets in. Look around at failed relationships in your immediate circle of relatives and friends. If you look into the details, more than likely you will find these three problems: A lack of discipline, A lack of compassion, and A lack of wisdom.

And if you cannot find a relationship that is disciplined, compassionate, and wise, and not controlling; better to remain alone.

NICE DAY..MWAAAH