WARNING SINGS THAT ITS TIME TO LET GO.....!!

Holding on to a failing relationship is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. Let me tell you when its time to let go:

1. YOUR PARTNER EXPECTING YOU TO BE SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT. It is wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you are not. Because it is easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a shattered identity. It is easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used to be.

2. THE ACTIONS OF YOUR PARTNER DONT MATCH THEIR WORDS. Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow. If someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently inconsistent and their actions do not match up with their words, it is time to let them go. It is always better to be alone than to be in bad company. True friendship is a promise made in the heart: Silent, unwritten, unbreakable by distance, and unchangeable by time. Do not listen to what people say. Watch what they do. Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time.

3. FORCING SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU. Let us keep in mind that we can not force anyone to love us. We should not beg someone to stay when they want to leave. Love is all about freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait. 

4. WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ONLY ON PHYSICAL ATTRACTION. Being beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how others perceive you at a single glance. It is about what you live for. It is about what defines you. It’s about the depth of your heart, and what makes you unique. It is about being who you are and living out your life honestly. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body will not stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.

5. YOUR PARTNER KEEPS ON BREAKING YOUR TRUST. Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you will automatically get one of two results: a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way there is a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover who is fake and who is true, and who would risk it all for you. 

6. SOMEONE NOT KNOWING YOUR WORTH. When you give yourself to someone who does not respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you will never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they will find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they do not care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. 

7. NOT GIVEN A CHANCE TO SPEAK YOUR MIND. Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it. Speak up for your heart so that you will not have regrets. Life is not about making others happy. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.

8. FORCED TO SACRIFICE YOUR HAPPINESS. If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it. Know when to close the account. It is always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self respect. 

What you need to remember is that eventually you will overcome the heartache, and forget the reasons you cried, and who caused the pain. Eventually you will realize that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the course of time. After all, what matters most is not the first, but the final chapter of your life, which unveils the details of how well you wrote your story. So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences.

Keep in mind that the one thing you should never let go of is hope. Remember what you deserve and keep pushing forward. Someday all the pieces will come together. KEEP HOPE ALIVE..MWAAAAAH.