WHEN YOUR MAN DOES NOT WANT TO MAKE LOVE...WHAT DO YOU DO?
Men always want sex. That's the message you hear from your friends, from talk-show experts and from the radio. Except when they don't. What if you find that you're the one craving a deeper sexual connection, but he simply doesn't want sex very often - or ever? How can you rescue your sex life?
Maybe your marriage started out on fire. You couldn't keep your hands off each other. But somewhere along the line, your husband lost interest in sex. Or maybe the signs of his sexual sluggishness were there all along; you just assumed things would get better, but if anything, they've gotten worse.
You've grown tired of always being the one to initiate, always being the one who cares. The fights have become exasperating. The loneliness is killing you. And he just doesn't get it. Or worse yet, you wonder, does he get it? Is he doing this to punish me? You ask yourself, what's wrong with me? Am I not attractive? Well, here is how to solve this problem
1. Here's something you need to know: The indifference to sex from your man probably has nothing to do with how attractive you are or how much he loves you. He may have a personal issue, such as depression or stress, that's sapping his sexual desire. Or the culprit could be a physical problem — such as illness, obesity, or trouble maintaining an erection (just to name a few).
2. Also note that many men lose interest in sex for the same reason many women do: unresolved feelings of anger, resentment and hurt that make the idea of making love not very appealing.
If you suspect that biology or personal issues may play a part in your husband's lack of interest in sex, he should start with a visit to a doctor or a therapist.
TAKE CARE MWAAAAA
Men always want sex. That's the message you hear from your friends, from talk-show experts and from the radio. Except when they don't. What if you find that you're the one craving a deeper sexual connection, but he simply doesn't want sex very often - or ever? How can you rescue your sex life?
Maybe your marriage started out on fire. You couldn't keep your hands off each other. But somewhere along the line, your husband lost interest in sex. Or maybe the signs of his sexual sluggishness were there all along; you just assumed things would get better, but if anything, they've gotten worse.
You've grown tired of always being the one to initiate, always being the one who cares. The fights have become exasperating. The loneliness is killing you. And he just doesn't get it. Or worse yet, you wonder, does he get it? Is he doing this to punish me? You ask yourself, what's wrong with me? Am I not attractive? Well, here is how to solve this problem
1. Here's something you need to know: The indifference to sex from your man probably has nothing to do with how attractive you are or how much he loves you. He may have a personal issue, such as depression or stress, that's sapping his sexual desire. Or the culprit could be a physical problem — such as illness, obesity, or trouble maintaining an erection (just to name a few).
2. Also note that many men lose interest in sex for the same reason many women do: unresolved feelings of anger, resentment and hurt that make the idea of making love not very appealing.
If you suspect that biology or personal issues may play a part in your husband's lack of interest in sex, he should start with a visit to a doctor or a therapist.
TAKE CARE MWAAAAA
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