When it comes to love and relationships, it is interesting that alot of women always go for bad guys. This is very frustrating for the good guys who can see their friends and crushes dating these unsuitable men and treating them badly, and then coming home and moaning to the good guys who are secretly pining after them. The women themselves know that these guys are no good for them. So why does this happen then?
1. Well there are actually several reasons. One of the most obvious reasons however is that bad guys are more exciting and as such are more alluring. By dating a ‘bad guy’ a woman gets to feel a bit bad herself. More to the point though, they often seem like more of a ‘challenge’ (women love trying to ‘change’ a man). They can also seem hard to obtain in the first place, and as everyone knows, women like a challenge, and they always want what they can not have.
2. If a bad boy picks you as a girl, then you know you were special, and this feeling can be enough to make a girl stick at a ‘bad guy’, even if he is cheating on her. If he still calls her his girlfriend, when he seems like he does not care, then she will feel like his rock and will feel special and ‘chosen’. Meanwhile her life will feel more like something out of a movie.
3. Relationships with the ‘bad guys’ are often more passionate as they can seem more charismatic than the up straight ‘boy scouts’. This is even more true when they first meat these good guys, who can come across as ass kissers if they are too eager to compliment and buy drinks for the girl they like. On the one hand they have this guy who has nothing about him who seems too keen and that she could easily pull later if she decided she wanted too, or the guy who is causing a scene, who does not seem interested, and who flirts in an aggressive way when she goes over. It is a no brainer which will be more exciting and interesting.
So how can you get around this problem if you are a good guy and being ‘bad’ does not come naturally? Well the secret is to focus on the good points of being bad. This means trying to have an element of mystery, trying not to seem to keen, trying to tease them and sound mean and appearing confident. One of the main problems for nice guys is that they do not go after what they want, they are too polite and do not want to appear presumptuous. So instead of doing that, go around and talk to a few girls so that you seem as though you have options, but act as though you are not too worried. Then when you speak to them, use friendly teasing in order to flirt and get them to laugh.
Another thing about ‘bad boys’ is that they often seem more physical. Put some work into your own physical appearance and dress sense and you will be able to compete on that level.
1. Well there are actually several reasons. One of the most obvious reasons however is that bad guys are more exciting and as such are more alluring. By dating a ‘bad guy’ a woman gets to feel a bit bad herself. More to the point though, they often seem like more of a ‘challenge’ (women love trying to ‘change’ a man). They can also seem hard to obtain in the first place, and as everyone knows, women like a challenge, and they always want what they can not have.
2. If a bad boy picks you as a girl, then you know you were special, and this feeling can be enough to make a girl stick at a ‘bad guy’, even if he is cheating on her. If he still calls her his girlfriend, when he seems like he does not care, then she will feel like his rock and will feel special and ‘chosen’. Meanwhile her life will feel more like something out of a movie.
3. Relationships with the ‘bad guys’ are often more passionate as they can seem more charismatic than the up straight ‘boy scouts’. This is even more true when they first meat these good guys, who can come across as ass kissers if they are too eager to compliment and buy drinks for the girl they like. On the one hand they have this guy who has nothing about him who seems too keen and that she could easily pull later if she decided she wanted too, or the guy who is causing a scene, who does not seem interested, and who flirts in an aggressive way when she goes over. It is a no brainer which will be more exciting and interesting.
So how can you get around this problem if you are a good guy and being ‘bad’ does not come naturally? Well the secret is to focus on the good points of being bad. This means trying to have an element of mystery, trying not to seem to keen, trying to tease them and sound mean and appearing confident. One of the main problems for nice guys is that they do not go after what they want, they are too polite and do not want to appear presumptuous. So instead of doing that, go around and talk to a few girls so that you seem as though you have options, but act as though you are not too worried. Then when you speak to them, use friendly teasing in order to flirt and get them to laugh.
Another thing about ‘bad boys’ is that they often seem more physical. Put some work into your own physical appearance and dress sense and you will be able to compete on that level.
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